Let get to know your friends better.....
this is from my experience on how to know or to judge your friends..
ok.. I make it simple..
this is 3 ways that i recommanded for this purpose...
To know a person's nature.Nothing is harder to know than a person's nature....... For some are nice to you but steal from you, outwardly respectful while inwardly plotting, brave on the outside but cowardly on the inside, strong for themselves but weak for others, fast to talk but slow to act, supportive when you are beneath them but jealous when you have wings, kind but cunning, there with you but acting against you, talented but selfish..... so, act fast la....
To know thoughts: ask kind questions, share principled stories, permit debate...... it is normal for the masses to hold different views and contention between different views is unavoidable, necessary and beneficial......In the course of normal and full debate, what is right, correct, and wrong will be affirmed, atau pe2 jelah unanimity will be reached. ...
To judge enemies posing as friends: watch their work, care nothing of what they say. Know those who form factions that band together for character assassination, false criticism, and vilification of the good..... seek luxury in uniforms; tell wild tales about supernatural help to the helpless...... they render judgment based on private views, and personal gain; make secret alliances with enemies, awaiting personal advantage. They require distance, disassociation and more......tapi kena peka la....
got it...
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GUD LUCK...
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